IONI — Institute of NLP India

Incongruence

The observable state of internal conflict — hesitant tone, mixed signals, "yes, but" body language — indicating some part is unsold on what another part is saying.

Calibrating incongruence in others prevents relying on commitments that will not hold; resolving it in yourself is parts work.

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ShriViral Manek, Institute of NLP India · reviewed 30 Sept 2026